You And The Laws of Attraction

You Don’t Control Whether I Live Or Die: I DO!!

“The reason the Father loves Me is that I lay down My life in order to take it up again. 18: No one takes it from Me, but I lay it down of My own accord. I have authority to lay it down and authority to take it up again. This charge I have received from My Father.” John 10:17-18It’s time to take control of what is yours to control. We as a people, have, for too long allowed others to dictate our fates. From our health to wealth; from our growth and spiritual understanding to our personal connection to the Divine. We have even been controlled in  the way in which we choose to express ourselves.  What we eat, how we dress, how we talk, and how we think.  As a result we find ourselves in a position in which we have forgotten how powerful we are. We have forgotten that we are the co-creators and the orators of the lives that we are living.  We have forgotten God’s Universal Laws which applies to everything in the heavens and earth.It’s time to take your life back! Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore God’s Laws and you.

Who Is In Control of Your Life?

You may have asked yourself this question once or twice in your life or one hundred times, “who is in control of my life?”  You usually go there when you are determined to accomplish a goal that has been fraught with setbacks.  Or when life has taken you to the abyss and is spiraling out of control. How much control do you have over your life and do you know what that control is? Most people aren’t even aware that their lives are manifesting based on the subplots and counterplots that they are running.  You can take control of your life.  However, in order to do that you must understand the Universal Law of Engagement so that you can work within that paradigm.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at who is really in control of your life.

Creating Your Recipe for Living Your Life

Life is nothing if not a recipe. Your choices for your life are the ingredients for the recipe of your life.  Your clarity of the end result or what you want to manifest or happen in your life will determine the choices you make.  And the Universal Laws of Attraction can help you to create with intent and perfection every time.    Let’s use cake making as your metaphor of life.  You need eggs, butter, sugar and flour as the basic ingredients for your pound cake. To that, depending on what you want the end product to taste like, you can add essences, fruit, alcohol, sour cream, nuts and veggies etc.   There are always ingredients necessary for anything that you are putting together.  If you are baking a pound cake you wouldn’t use liver, heart, kidneys or meat.  However, you could choose to use tallow or lard instead of butter, thus, greatly impacting taste, texture, smell and final outcome.  Your life is like creating your favorite recipe or singing the harmonic lyrics to your all time favorite song.  How does this translate to you living the life you want to live and what does it take to create your unique recipe for your life? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at how to construct your recipe of life. 

What’s The One Thing That Is Derailing Your Success?

The term success is relative to who you are, and basically, what you feel or see success as being.  Remember the old adage, “One Man’s Meat Is Another Man’s Poison?” This is how relative success is.  But what isn’t relative is when you choose to allow something that has happened in your past to block you from achieving your desired goals.  What’s crazy is that what’s blocking you is almost always attributed to one thing.  While it might not appear that way, it is.  Whether large or small the wall that you have thrown up has imprisoned you. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at how to get back on track.

Part II Starting My Life Over Again

In last week’s episode of My Life My Choice we discuss the elements needed in “Starting My Life Over?”  In Part II we are going to explore taking your “atomic” word, that’s the one word that sums everything up that you are going through to the next level. This creates a personalized supportive manifesting dynamic.  The precursor to “consciously” getting what you want in life is making the right choice.  To make the right choice you need to know with clarity what you want.Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley as we look at taking your self talk to the next level.live by clicking link  or call in on 646-727-2759 you can download free podcast at iTunes http://apple.co/2qTTCgS 

How Do I Start My Life Over Again?

When your life comes to a grinding halt it’s usually associated with the loss of someone or something.  The feelings of loss could be as a result of a death, a divorce, a drifting away.  Out growing people, places and things or the thing that fit so perfectly before is no longer a good fit.  Whatever the cause your reaction is one in which you have experienced loss.   In the pain of that loss you have reacted in a way that it has shut you off or shut you down.   The fact that you are still breathing means that there is still life left in you, and although you may be down you are not out.  As long as you are physically breathing, life will gather momentum and demand that you consciously participate in the direction you want to go in.  So how do you start your life over again? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at starting over.

What Are You Really Trying To Tell Yourself?

Join us live by clicking the link http://bit.ly/2pImhrO or by calling in 646-727-2759Everything that happens in our lives, including the if I wouldha, shouldha and couldha’s is supplying us with life changing information. This information is used as a foundation from which we base many things, including, but not limited to our emotional responses to life, but ultimately the choices we choose to make.There are times in your life where you may have flown off the handle or become unglued about a seemingly minor incident. Even you, after calming down, find yourself saying, “Wow! That was a little OTT (over the top). Umm I guess I’m more stressed out than I thought I was.” Your physical, mental or emotional auto-response, to any given situation supplies you with a live stream of intelligence. This creates a wonderful dynamic in which you get to use your response to find clarity for your choice making process. So what are you really trying to tell yourself by the action and reaction you have to life?Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at ways to figure out what you are trying to tell yourself by your behavior.

Is Wearing Rose Colored Glasses Wrong?

Your glass can be half empty or half full.  You can wear rose colored glasses and see everything a certain way the good the bad the ugly and pretty too.  Optimism and pessimism is a personal choice by which you view your world and your life. There is nothing wrong with any of the above views, whether optimist or pessimist, it’s all good.  When it becomes a problem, or not so good, is when your view of life isn’t reflecting back to you what you want to see.  You get to choose the filter from which you view your life from.  Change your filter and you will change your life.  Choice is a Universal Law that dictates how you live your life!   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and artist as we look at you and the power of choosing the right lens to view your life from.

21 Day Forgiveness Project Unleashing Your Power

Consciously using the Universal Laws of Attraction, takes consistent action.  Because we are emotional beings we can react to things that we experience in our lives in a myriad of ways.  We can be enraged, sad or hurt.  We can play the blame game, be resentful, hateful and sometimes downright mean and spiteful.  Within reason, and befitting the situation all the above feelings are normal.  What isn’t normal is our inability to let go of these emotions that become toxic to every facet of our lives.The 21 Day Forgiveness Project is all about you and learning the transformative art of forgiveness.  This will allow you to let go of emotional toxicity and move on by unlocking and or unblocking the channels that are preventing your manifestations or blessings from being realized.Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and intrinsic coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as explore the 21 Day Forgiveness Project.

Why Does God Keep Letting Me Make The Wrong Choices?

There is a fine line, so fine that it can be missed when it comes to God, choices and you.  Omnipotent is a word that is used to describe God or your chosen deity.  The ultimate power to know, see, do, hear, speak and be all is omnipotence.   We have been told that God knows what’s best for us and to allow God to make that happen.  And yet, we have been told to ask for what we want, believing that we have it already and we will receive it. Knock and the door will be open. We’ve been basically told that we don’t have to do anything, but just exist. We’ve been giving disinformation, and for most people, if they are honest, they will say, life hasn’t turned out the way in which they wanted. We’ve be told, “Watch God laugh when you try to make something happen yourself.”  Ironically, there is an element of truth to this saying, but it’s not what you think.  Understanding who you are and your role in YOUR choice making process is paramount to you making the right choices for your life. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and intrinsic coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore God, choices and you.