You And The Laws of Attraction

Desire And The Things It Will Make You Do

Many people have a hard time justifying why they have taken a certain action, especially when it goes against the grain of their moral fiber.  Reconciling the action is a confusing challenge because it doesn’t mesh with their ethics, nor is it a part of their intrinsic belief.  It doesn’t belong in their culture, up bringing or religious or spiritual doctrines.  And this is not who they are showing up in the world as, and yet still, they have done the deed.  You see this exhibited as addictions of all types from food, to sex to drugs to shopping and everything in between.  It demonstrates itself as abuse to self and others, anti-social behaviors, even culminating in murder.  What is it that can have this action on people?  In a word, “DESIRE!” It is a powerful medium that can compel anyone including you to do things that you can’t believe you are doing.  Many people have fallen into the trap of desire only to realize that their lives have been irrevocably changed...and usually not for the better.  The Universal Law of Desire is a powerful mesmeric energetic force that rivals any Law out there including the Law of Love. Desire temporarily amplifies a thought process turning it into something that becomes a must have, or die, type of situation.   How is desire playing out in your life?  And how can this compelling feeling be used to consciously manifest what you want?Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert, Clarity and Laws of Attraction Coach, as we explore the Universal Law of Desire and how you can use it to manifest what you want for your life.

Choice Is The First Law In The Laws of Attraction

Your ability to choose, is without a doubt, the most powerful energy that you will ever control.  Choice, much like DNA, are the building blocks that give physicality to everything created inside and outside of your life. Choice is the power upon which the Universe is created. The first law in the Universal Laws of Attraction is choice.  It’s a natural law, a spiritual law, manmade law and it IS God’s Law.  Nothing can and will happen in your life, good or bad, without you first making a choice.  More often than not our choices appear to be circuitous, but the reality is, they are not.  You’ve experienced and are experiencing what you are going through, because of choices you have made in the past or in the present.   Don’t get this confused with the feelings of rightness or wrongness of the results experienced.  Attractioners, right or wrong is an emotional call – and that too is a choice!   The Universal Law of Choice the creative force that set into motion all things.  This energy isn’t a respecter of your feelings, it respects the action you decide upon.Genesis 1-4 “Now the earth was formless and void, and darkness was over the surface of the deep. And the Spirit of God was hovering over the surface of the waters.  And God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. And seeing that the light was good, God separated the light from the darkness.…Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Clarity Coach as we rekindle our relationship and understanding with the role choice plays in our lives.

The Emotional Discount Game

When we want what we want, many people do what they must do, to get it, even if it means cutting corners.  As human beings the desire to have a specific experience within a relationship, with people, places and things creates an interesting dynamic for playing “the discount game.” If you’ve ever felt that you have been taken for granted, you’ve experienced being discounted.  If you’ve used someone for your own agenda at their expense, you’ve discounted that person.  And if you go back and forth doing the above, you’ve entered into “the discount game.”There is nothing wrong with cutting people a little slack sometimes.  We all need it and we all can give it.  However, discounting is totally different and the ramifications are nothing short of disastrous.  It creates a silent chaos within that erupts into a towering uncontrollable volcano.  Like I said the ramifications are disastrous.Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice and Clarity Expert and Coach as together we explore discounting your feelings and others and what it can create in your life.Visit The Laws of Attraction In Action website of more tutorials on how to make choices, get clarity and consciously Use The Laws of Attraction to manifest.Join The Laws of Attraction In Action Facebook Group for daily inspiration post and live streams

The Positive Benefits of Creating A Win-Win Attitude In Your Life

Life is always moving and as a result of that events are continuously unfolding or manifesting.  Some will be to your liking and others will not.  This is the natural order of life with is dualities and polarities that are required for us to consciously and unconsciously manifest.  One of the most powerful positive attributes you can acquire is to always make the choice to find the win-win in every situation.  There is always a “learning” or a takeaway from every situation that you can apply to your life, for the betterment of your life.Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne as I explore this powerful phenomenon and be sure to checkout https://thelawsofattractioninaction.com for blogs, webinar and video tutorials.

What Happens To You When They Move The Goalposts During The Game?

I want a divorce.  You’re fired!  You have 8 weeks to live.  Wow, that smoke I saw was my house burning to the ground.  You don’t qualify.  Your too white, too black, too fat, too skinny, too tall, too short, too smart, too dumb, too young, too old.  You’re too critical, too much, too understanding, too negative etc.  You will always be too something for someone.  Life has been likened to a game and in order to play the game of life, you must understand the Universal Laws and the rules of engagement.   But what happens when you’re playing the game of your life and someone changes the rules, conveniently, forgetting to tell you, until you are standing in front of your goalposts, which they have so inconveniently moved.  What happens to your life then.  Are they plotting against you?  Is it a conspiracy? Can you get your old life back?  Are you being given a message?  Did you create this situation?Genesis 50:20 “As for you, what you intended against me for evil, God intended for good, in order to accomplish a day like this—to preserve the lives of many people.” Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne as I share a recent experience I had when the State moved the goalpost and change my life.Visit me: https://thelawsofattractioninaction.com

Your Subconscious Mind Doesn’t Get the Punch line of The Joke

Understanding the function of your subconscious mind is a powerful key that helps you get what you want in life.  Your subconscious mind operates just like the hard drive found on your PC or the OS or IOS iPhone Operating System on your mobile phone, tablets and iPads.  Your subconscious mind doesn’t get the punch line of a joke, understand slang, sarcasm, colloquialisms or rhetorical talk.  It only understands what you tell it, verbatim.  It only takes action to manifest what you tell it to do.  There are several ways to communicate directly with your subconscious mind; talking directly to yourself with intention.  Through unchecked self-talk and runaway thoughts and what you believe and or are passionate about. When communicating with your subconscious mind you must be very specific.Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction In Action Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we look at you and the power of your subconscious mind.

Nuances In Your Thoughts, Actions & Speech Control What You Manifest In Life

Nuance what it is and what does it mean for your life?  Nuance:  It’s a subtle difference and a distinction in the expression of your meaning.  Next to lack of self-discipline, understanding the nuances of your thoughts, speech, actions and deeds is the second reason why people are unable to manifest what they want in life.  What you believe is what you receive.  This is a fundamental Law and it is unchangeable. Today, we are going to be exploring “nuances” and how using them unintentionally can leave you standing in the rubble of your life.  Your left wondering, how the hell did I get here?Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we explore what this means for you.Visit our website: https://thelawsofattractioninaction.comJoin our Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thelawsofattractioninaction/

Am I The Source of Negative Conditions In My Life?

The word negative and negate come from the same Latin root: negativus, which means to deny, refute, refuse and or subtract. In today’s world, negative translates to someone who has a disposition that just brings everything down.  They detract or subtract from any circumstance by not adding anything of value.The irony is negative people, conditions or circumstances that show up in your life, are doing so because you have brought them there. The Universal Law of Negativity is designed to show you contrasts and parallels.  The Law of Negativity plays a key role in your ability to find clarity using your sense of what feels good to you verses what doesn’t.  This is all done so you have an opportunity to make conscious choices that are in the best interest of self.    It also shows you how powerful your thoughts are.   “For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me. Job 3:25.Your thoughts become tangible things in your life.  Your thoughts become your choices and your choices become things made manifest...how powerful is that?Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we explore the Law of Negativity and the role it plays in your life.Visit TheLawofAttractioninaction.com Join the conversation on our Facebook Group: The Laws of Attraction In Action

Are You Prepared To Pay The Price For What You Want?

When people are asked, are you prepared to pay the price for anything, most think in monetary terms.  Paying the price for what you want in life is really about you, your spirituality and using your spiritual currency.  While he didn’t coin the phrase, Dr. Joseph Murphy states, “there are no free lunches.”  And it’s true.  There is a cost for everything that you do…even breathing!  So, with that in mind are you prepared to pay the spiritual cost using your spiritual coin from your invisible bank for what you want.Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we explore what paying the price to get what you want means.Email: drwendy@itsmylifemychoice.com

What Are You Subconsciously Choosing And Co-creating In Your Life?

Wherever you find yourself, whatever your current circumstance is, you have co-created this by the choices you have made. By the words that you have spoken, by the actions that you have taken and the deep-seated feeling you hold within your heart.  This is one of the hardest realities for people to accept; that they are the co-creators of what has, and, is transpiring in their lives.   What makes this hard to accept, is that people look at their circumstances in terms of the end result, then assigning their emotional seal of right, wrong and blame.  Many people feel that to take ownership of their life and the part that they have played in getting to their current circumstance, is to condone behaviors, attitudes and action that have been perpetrated against them.  This is so far from the truth. You have a part in where you end up in your life on a daily basis.  Your part in the co-creation of your life is driven by your choices, which are your deep-seated subconscious desires, also known as the desires of your heart.Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we reacquaint ourselves with the power of conscious and unconscious choice, and the role it plays in us getting what we want in life.